We don't advertent, can use words to hurt each other, even if the original himself this not think so, but speech errors, but brought us so much trouble. Meanwhile, we will not go to review their, think oneself say he is all right, failed to see her own shortcomings.
And my co-worker is quite the contrary, she said: "life is alive, without a little trouble? Who, as long as these problems do not affect the overall interests, in fact also no big deal, why don't we go to praise each other, why must put others said worthless?" Once could not see the truth of the matter, we will lose direction, thought that oneself only is this the most perfect person in the world, completely ignore someone's existence. So, hard to avoid can make it offends others. As time passes, we will lose many, say family and friendship.
We are not won't say praise words, but we have no idea to find each other's strengths. See a problem again always so one-sided, always self-centered, never respect others' feelings. So, often can let our double to see not pure the truth of the matter.
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